1、世界上最贵的蛋就是脸蛋，最贵的房子就是乳房。
2、皮肤是一件永不褪色的时装。
3、宝马车不保养也会提前报废，更何况是我们女人这张脸。
4、著名作家张爱玲说过：“一个男人选择一个女人，绝对不是因为她内在有多美，而是因为这个女人的外在形象带给他美好的感觉。”
5、现在社会的真实现象：当你把地板擦得比你的脸还亮时，你的老公也不会多看你一眼，因为他希望你的脸比地板亮。
6、老公的钱你不花，会有人帮你花。
7、女孩子如果愿意把吃饭的钱花在脸上，就会有男孩子请你吃饭，为你埋单。
8、男人负责赚钱养家，女人负责貌美如花。
9、事业是男人的姿色，姿色是女人的事业。
10、世界上没有丑女人，只有懒女人。
11、美丽是爱情的保鲜剂，婚姻的防盗车锁，事业的敲门砖。
12、不保养的女人是没有前途和未来的。
13、你要留住老公的心，首先要留住老公的眼
14、保养是老样子，不保养是样子老。
15、为什么男人找老婆都要找漂亮的，因为漂亮女人是男人的面子，你给男人面子，回到家男人给你票子。
16、有的女人会说：无论你再怎么保养，也不可能回到20岁，这话是对的，因为我们想返老还童，保养也不可能让我们永远20岁。但保养不仅是为是年轻，保养是一种心态，是一种积极、优雅的生活态度，是一种精致的生活，是一种快乐自己的心态，你希望像赵雅芝59岁、刘晓庆一样58岁还可以和32岁的范冰冰一样美吗？还是54岁的倪萍一样的“大妈外表”？
17、有人说，我觉得拥有内在美就可以了！呀嘿！“外在不美的女人，连展示内在美的机会都没有” 。
18、男人爱你的程度，取决于你爱自己的程度。
19、男人只要有钱、有权，50岁还要以找一个18岁的女人，而女人今天如果不懂得爱自己，就算你再有能力、再有钱，也不可能50岁还找一个18岁的男人。
20、灰姑娘是因为有了公主般的打扮、穿上了公主裙、穿上了水晶鞋，才吸引到了王子，所以女人的美丽是生产力。
21、化妆的女人是彩色电视机！不化妆的女人是黑白电视机… 生活中只有懒女人，没有丑女人。善待自己，爱惜自己，人生短短几十年，一个女人，过了如花美眷的几年，就该好好养生，世界那么大，你却是世界上仅有的一个，独一无二！
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Lately I have heard many friends and their little ones around me get sick and I hope they may get well soon. The level of air pollution is still increasing and never goes down. We must keep ourselves a healthy body with a good practice of inner maintenance of health, and yet, a clean environment at our home and office.
So I written this :
When you realized you are "AGING"
READ THIS ! :P
"養生之道"
當你發覺自己 :
眼袋出現, 皮膚鬆弛, 容易疲倦,
頭髮斑白, 牙齒鬆脫, 性能力減
視力及聽覺下降...等等，
表示你已進入衰老期。
[養生] 就是延遲這些現象的出現。
~ 排毒養生,才到飲食養生
很多人不斷地追求飲食飲食養生，但忘記排毒養生的重要。任何食物
~ 規律生活
人和其他生物都是大自然的一部分，生物要活得健康就要服從天地運
日出而作，日入而息是天人合一的自然生活規律.
電燈的發明，現代人已經偏離這個規律。中醫指出，晚上11pm-
其實，人只要懂得吸氣及納氣就是天人合一的第一步。你不必懂氣功
~ 善用自我復修能力
正常人手足受傷後，身體會自我修復，直至痊癒。其實人體內部器官
~ 身體鍛鍊,預防疾病
或許現代人無法抽空去寧靜的地方運動,但是可以趁看電視的空檔鬆
1) 增強心肺功能，促進血液循環
2) 幫助舒展筋骨，減少腰酸背痛
3) 增加身體及關節的柔軟性，使人更靈活，減少受傷的機會
4) 使睡眠更佳，得到更充分的休息
5) 令人更有活力、更精神及更醒目，學習及工作更有效率
6) 幫助鬆弛神經，清除讀書或工作帶來的精神壓力
7) 幫助增加持久力，鍛鍊堅強意志，勇於面對挑戰 8) 幫助增加自信心，建立健康的自我形象
9) 與家人或朋友一起分享樂趣的機會，促進大家的感情
10) 提供認識新朋友的機會及於群體活動中學習合作精神
~ 環境衛生,遠離塵埃,二手煙,油煙
關於這點,筆者覺得要注意的很多.每個人都應該身體力行去做.環
空氣的流通很重要,但是同時空氣汙染指數不斷提升的情況,大家應
愿大家共勉之.
Don't forget to work okay :P
Love,
I created this "Frequently Asked Comments" section to clear all the blues that people were trying to put on me; especially into certain situation they think (and I would say they are kinda syiok sendiri )
Stepping into this step of my life, the early marriage; it seem to received 60% of negative comments.
1) Do you work ?
Yes, I own a clothing webstore. Considered as self-employed or typical S.O.H.O you may call. Majorly selling classy and fabulous Dinner Dress and Cheongsam. Also, letting some customer to make appointment and come over my house "mini-showroom" to try over sizes. I enjoy to sell dresses as when every time they are happy with my clothes, I felt mission accomplished like a James Bond !
Being self-employed provides me flexible hours, I can cook for my son and make sure he is being well feed all the time; however, same with any entrepreneurs, I could be up at 4am and often working during weekends.
2) Oh my... you are a degreeholder but end up selling clothes? What a waste !
You may think that and giving me a pity face trying to label that I looks miserable to you. But think twice, I could be ending up better than you in a way you didn't see.
Yes, one man show as a babysitter and maid and own business could be tiring but I am contented and thankful enough. There was a moment I thought of going out work instead of staying home due to all these comments & colored eye-sight. But, think twice :
a) My income might be not as high as yours but at least I won't be having fixed expenses due to going out work; such as petrol, toll, rental, lunch and clients entertainment fee etc
b) I don't want to missed out any precious growing up moments of my son.
I had breastfed him fully for 24 months. And I witnessed how he transform from a new born to a kid everyday. I don't want ending up he took others as more closer person due to I build a barrier with my son in between.
3) Is this boy your son? You look so young !
Yes I am, my hubby witnessed my delivery moment. And I am genetically baby face like my mother, so I believe I will still look 20 when I am 30 ;)
4) Early motherhood sure causing your parents upset , as they invested a lot of school fee on you !
I would say, my parents were the one support me and encourage me to take care of my son fully. As my dad told me : "Raised your kid well so that future he will be good. In this case, you are earned, for sure! " That means, high pay of salary doesn't mean your life will be good if you neglected your child, coz the effort you supposed to put on were allocated into wrong place !
Besides, I realized that not only me, but my peers / my friends whom graduated with me together, some of them are still not contributed into the relevant field they went further studies ! Yes of course there could be some of them are earning high pay jobs but, do they have sufficient me-time ?
Most importantly, thankful and blissful with my husband and parents' support in both mentally and physically. There was twice I had encounter emotional breakdown and having PND due to all these negative comments / colored eyesight, but hey... I am having what they doesn't have ! Afterall, all these exists becoz I have him support in behind ! Ya, not every woman are lucky as me to have somebody nourish me the love and pampered me like a baby.
5) Since you run online business, why don't you create a physical store to sell more?
I am satisfied with my current life. I worked for my parent's shop before and other people as well; thus I notice the shop business doesn't really as good as most people think. Nowadays, the trafficking for online shopping are just having the equal percentage with physical window shopping ! So, why not? cut down the fixed cost and let your customers save more. They happy, you happy; and they will come back to you again.
I don't use pushy sales tactic or making my customers felt annoyed due to being aggressive. I hate that. I will have my own way to do publicity.
Lastly, the next life target.
I would like to go travel Taiwan again; but before that become a volunteer for Malaysia local rural areas such as Sabah Sarawak.
While personally, I wish to further my yoga and music. Until my son grown up, then only I go back to school to pursue my Master.
I might not need it but I would love to.
xx bye xx
Have a nice day ahead.
Best Regards,Carrole Chong
www.houseintrendz.com
1) 只有惜緣才能續緣。
在人生的路上，我們會遇到很多人，其實有緣才能相聚，親人多半是前世的好友，好友多半是前世的親人，給你帶來煩惱的，多半是你前世傷害過的。
因此切記:
善待身邊的親人，關心身邊的朋友，寬恕那些傷害你的人。
這, 就是因果。
2) 心中無缺叫富，被人需要叫貴。
快樂不是一種性格，而是一種能力。
笑看風雲淡，坐對雲起時。
不爭就是慈悲，不辯就是智慧，不聞就是清淨，不看就是自在，原諒就是解脫，知足就是放下。
3) 不亂於心，不困於情，不畏將來，不念過往。
我的两岁三个月儿子今天很纯粹的因为我帮他拿一支水草而第一次和我说谢谢,
也第一次让我半掩着冲凉门乖乖不再哭泣,默默在门外陪着我,
其中还一直唱happy birthday to you...happy birthday to you mama。因为我和他说闷的话可以唱歌给妈妈听。
今天不是我生日,但是感觉自己中了头奖,
谢谢上天安排给我的这份礼物;
他就象我的小情人,偶尔在我懒洋洋的时候还会模范他爸爸给我按摩;
抱抱他的时候还会给我一个吻,甚至一连串的吻。
辛苦了3年,自知孩子就是我最大的财富。感恩所有!
老婆要知道：老公就是老公，只要去愛，不要拿來比較。不要老說別
老公要明白：老婆就是老婆，只要去疼，不要拿來比較。別說她不如
老婆要知道：不要擺臉色給對方看，一個生氣的女人是很醜陋的。他
老公要明白：不要把老婆當作出氣筒，一個只會對著老婆指手劃腳的
老婆要知道：男人對自己的尊嚴看得比什麼都重要，不管在私下他有
老公要明白：女人也是獨立的人，也有自尊。婦女翻身得解放的口號
老婆要知道：老公的父母就是自己的父母。將心比心，愛屋及烏，老
老公要明白：老婆也是父母心頭的肉。也是父母一把屎一把尿拉扯長
完美的家庭需要兩夫妻相互愛護相互體諒相互寬容……
孩子会这么生病，有时真是自己careless的后果。
如果不是1/1那天，趁着公共假期一家三口gai gai，自以为孩子是20个月的全母乳儿就任孩子在playground玩，因为老公跑开一小时去做人家新张广告，防我们在那里消磨时间，也忘了带冷衣（自己自以为是，向来他都怕热，平时带给他都不穿，还会发脾气，当人家妈妈没有顾好他穿不穿得暖，真是大错！）（一向来玩了playground都会给他洗手），结果因为他玩着玩着看见马来姐姐的waffle很香一直追着姐姐在讨吃，我就快快去买一个给他，却忘了给他洗手（因为超市里没有厕所，要make payment后才有，可是食物是超市小档口的），直接让他隔着waffle支袋吃 （第一错！）。
然后给他待在temerloh mall吃了午餐还逛mentakab starmall，想要添一些家里用品，结果逛到吃晚餐才回，在sushi king，要求的kids spoon也没有先烫热水（一向来有烫，那次没消毒，第二错！）。
结果一上车，马上high fever。一路回mentakab到temerloh没有clinic开，因为是大假期。赶回去自己家的emergency已经是晚上十点，给他塞屁股药，整晚却仍然39.5度。
一月二号上诊疗所，第二次塞屁股，再拿各种药水（向来他生病就只是发芽时微烧，吃几次退烧药就好，不用antibiotic）。可是这常病，到今天，药吃完了仍翻翻复复，还传染到我一起病到五颜六色，病到没有办法好好招待来探我和孩子的爸妈，病到吃错老公上个月看医生的药，病到糊里糊涂把刷子掉进马桶，还病到视力模糊，把粉红色和天蓝色看成同样颜色~ antibiotic三天的course吃完了还是没有好。不得不说这个new year day bacteria真是强！
妈妈们，记得不要像我这么懒惰，才一次没带冷衣，一次忘记洗手，一次没有准备自己的餐具，后果就是这么辛苦！