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5:09 PM
Lately I have heard many friends and their little ones around me get sick and I hope they may get well soon. The level of air pollution is still increasing and never goes down. We must keep ourselves a healthy body with a good practice of inner maintenance of health, and yet, a clean environment at our home and office.
So I written this :
When you realized you are "AGING"
READ THIS ! :P
"養生之道"
當你發覺自己 :
眼袋出現, 皮膚鬆弛, 容易疲倦,
頭髮斑白, 牙齒鬆脫, 性能力減
視力及聽覺下降...等等，
表示你已進入衰老期。
[養生] 就是延遲這些現象的出現。
~ 排毒養生,才到飲食養生
很多人不斷地追求飲食飲食養生，但忘記排毒養生的重要。任何食物
~ 規律生活
人和其他生物都是大自然的一部分，生物要活得健康就要服從天地運
日出而作，日入而息是天人合一的自然生活規律.
電燈的發明，現代人已經偏離這個規律。中醫指出，晚上11pm-
其實，人只要懂得吸氣及納氣就是天人合一的第一步。你不必懂氣功
~ 善用自我復修能力
正常人手足受傷後，身體會自我修復，直至痊癒。其實人體內部器官
~ 身體鍛鍊,預防疾病
或許現代人無法抽空去寧靜的地方運動,但是可以趁看電視的空檔鬆
1) 增強心肺功能，促進血液循環
2) 幫助舒展筋骨，減少腰酸背痛
3) 增加身體及關節的柔軟性，使人更靈活，減少受傷的機會
4) 使睡眠更佳，得到更充分的休息
5) 令人更有活力、更精神及更醒目，學習及工作更有效率
6) 幫助鬆弛神經，清除讀書或工作帶來的精神壓力
7) 幫助增加持久力，鍛鍊堅強意志，勇於面對挑戰 8) 幫助增加自信心，建立健康的自我形象
9) 與家人或朋友一起分享樂趣的機會，促進大家的感情
10) 提供認識新朋友的機會及於群體活動中學習合作精神
~ 環境衛生,遠離塵埃,二手煙,油煙
關於這點,筆者覺得要注意的很多.每個人都應該身體力行去做.環
空氣的流通很重要,但是同時空氣汙染指數不斷提升的情況,大家應
愿大家共勉之.
Yeah ~ Forget the world, take care of yourself first !
Don't forget to work okay :P
Love,
Don't forget to work okay :P
Love,
Carrole Chong
www.houseintrendz.com
4:43 PM
I created this "Frequently Asked Comments" section to clear all the blues that people were trying to put on me; especially into certain situation they think (and I would say they are kinda syiok sendiri )
Stepping into this step of my life, the early marriage; it seem to received 60% of negative comments.
1) Do you work ?
Yes, I own a clothing webstore. Considered as self-employed or typical S.O.H.O you may call. Majorly selling classy and fabulous Dinner Dress and Cheongsam. Also, letting some customer to make appointment and come over my house "mini-showroom" to try over sizes. I enjoy to sell dresses as when every time they are happy with my clothes, I felt mission accomplished like a James Bond !
Being self-employed provides me flexible hours, I can cook for my son and make sure he is being well feed all the time; however, same with any entrepreneurs, I could be up at 4am and often working during weekends.
2) Oh my... you are a degreeholder but end up selling clothes? What a waste !
You may think that and giving me a pity face trying to label that I looks miserable to you. But think twice, I could be ending up better than you in a way you didn't see.
Yes, one man show as a babysitter and maid and own business could be tiring but I am contented and thankful enough. There was a moment I thought of going out work instead of staying home due to all these comments & colored eye-sight. But, think twice :
a) My income might be not as high as yours but at least I won't be having fixed expenses due to going out work; such as petrol, toll, rental, lunch and clients entertainment fee etc
b) I don't want to missed out any precious growing up moments of my son.
I had breastfed him fully for 24 months. And I witnessed how he transform from a new born to a kid everyday. I don't want ending up he took others as more closer person due to I build a barrier with my son in between.
3) Is this boy your son? You look so young !
Yes I am, my hubby witnessed my delivery moment. And I am genetically baby face like my mother, so I believe I will still look 20 when I am 30 ;)
4) Early motherhood sure causing your parents upset , as they invested a lot of school fee on you !
I would say, my parents were the one support me and encourage me to take care of my son fully. As my dad told me : "Raised your kid well so that future he will be good. In this case, you are earned, for sure! " That means, high pay of salary doesn't mean your life will be good if you neglected your child, coz the effort you supposed to put on were allocated into wrong place !
Besides, I realized that not only me, but my peers / my friends whom graduated with me together, some of them are still not contributed into the relevant field they went further studies ! Yes of course there could be some of them are earning high pay jobs but, do they have sufficient me-time ?
Most importantly, thankful and blissful with my husband and parents' support in both mentally and physically. There was twice I had encounter emotional breakdown and having PND due to all these negative comments / colored eyesight, but hey... I am having what they doesn't have ! Afterall, all these exists becoz I have him support in behind ! Ya, not every woman are lucky as me to have somebody nourish me the love and pampered me like a baby.
5) Since you run online business, why don't you create a physical store to sell more?
I am satisfied with my current life. I worked for my parent's shop before and other people as well; thus I notice the shop business doesn't really as good as most people think. Nowadays, the trafficking for online shopping are just having the equal percentage with physical window shopping ! So, why not? cut down the fixed cost and let your customers save more. They happy, you happy; and they will come back to you again.
I don't use pushy sales tactic or making my customers felt annoyed due to being aggressive. I hate that. I will have my own way to do publicity.
Lastly, the next life target.
I would like to go travel Taiwan again; but before that become a volunteer for Malaysia local rural areas such as Sabah Sarawak.
While personally, I wish to further my yoga and music. Until my son grown up, then only I go back to school to pursue my Master.
I might not need it but I would love to.
xx bye xx
Have a nice day ahead.
Best Regards,Carrole Chong
www.houseintrendz.com
3:35 PM
1) 只有惜緣才能續緣。
在人生的路上，我們會遇到很多人，其實有緣才能相聚，親人多半是前世的好友，好友多半是前世的親人，給你帶來煩惱的，多半是你前世傷害過的。
因此切記:
善待身邊的親人，關心身邊的朋友，寬恕那些傷害你的人。
這, 就是因果。
2) 心中無缺叫富，被人需要叫貴。
快樂不是一種性格，而是一種能力。
笑看風雲淡，坐對雲起時。
不爭就是慈悲，不辯就是智慧，不聞就是清淨，不看就是自在，原諒就是解脫，知足就是放下。
3) 不亂於心，不困於情，不畏將來，不念過往。
11:56 PM
我的两岁三个月儿子今天很纯粹的因为我帮他拿一支水草而第一次和我说谢谢,
也第一次让我半掩着冲凉门乖乖不再哭泣,默默在门外陪着我,
其中还一直唱happy birthday to you...happy birthday to you mama。因为我和他说闷的话可以唱歌给妈妈听。
今天不是我生日,但是感觉自己中了头奖,
谢谢上天安排给我的这份礼物;
他就象我的小情人,偶尔在我懒洋洋的时候还会模范他爸爸给我按摩;
抱抱他的时候还会给我一个吻,甚至一连串的吻。
辛苦了3年,自知孩子就是我最大的财富。感恩所有!
11:18 AM
老婆要知道：老公就是老公，只要去愛，不要拿來比較。不要老說別
老公要明白：老婆就是老婆，只要去疼，不要拿來比較。別說她不如
老婆要知道：不要擺臉色給對方看，一個生氣的女人是很醜陋的。他
老公要明白：不要把老婆當作出氣筒，一個只會對著老婆指手劃腳的
老婆要知道：男人對自己的尊嚴看得比什麼都重要，不管在私下他有
老公要明白：女人也是獨立的人，也有自尊。婦女翻身得解放的口號
老婆要知道：老公的父母就是自己的父母。將心比心，愛屋及烏，老
老公要明白：老婆也是父母心頭的肉。也是父母一把屎一把尿拉扯長
完美的家庭需要兩夫妻相互愛護相互體諒相互寬容……
12:48 PM
今年的个人愿望：
1) 孩子愿意和外婆外公独处超过24小时，愿意喝奶粉。
2) 生意兴隆之余，上一个intensive short course。
3) 和好朋友一起喝个英式下午茶，然后再来个狂欢派对！
事业与家庭并重的妈妈＋家庭主妇们，努力！加油！
♥
p/s: 减肥大计刻不容缓！
xx
11:49 PM
孩子会这么生病，有时真是自己careless的后果。
如果不是1/1那天，趁着公共假期一家三口gai gai，自以为孩子是20个月的全母乳儿就任孩子在playground玩，因为老公跑开一小时去做人家新张广告，防我们在那里消磨时间，也忘了带冷衣（自己自以为是，向来他都怕热，平时带给他都不穿，还会发脾气，当人家妈妈没有顾好他穿不穿得暖，真是大错！）（一向来玩了playground都会给他洗手），结果因为他玩着玩着看见马来姐姐的waffle很香一直追着姐姐在讨吃，我就快快去买一个给他，却忘了给他洗手（因为超市里没有厕所，要make payment后才有，可是食物是超市小档口的），直接让他隔着waffle支袋吃 （第一错！）。
然后给他待在temerloh mall吃了午餐还逛mentakab starmall，想要添一些家里用品，结果逛到吃晚餐才回，在sushi king，要求的kids spoon也没有先烫热水（一向来有烫，那次没消毒，第二错！）。
结果一上车，马上high fever。一路回mentakab到temerloh没有clinic开，因为是大假期。赶回去自己家的emergency已经是晚上十点，给他塞屁股药，整晚却仍然39.5度。
一月二号上诊疗所，第二次塞屁股，再拿各种药水（向来他生病就只是发芽时微烧，吃几次退烧药就好，不用antibiotic）。可是这常病，到今天，药吃完了仍翻翻复复，还传染到我一起病到五颜六色，病到没有办法好好招待来探我和孩子的爸妈，病到吃错老公上个月看医生的药，病到糊里糊涂把刷子掉进马桶，还病到视力模糊，把粉红色和天蓝色看成同样颜色~ antibiotic三天的course吃完了还是没有好。不得不说这个new year day bacteria真是强！
妈妈们，记得不要像我这么懒惰，才一次没带冷衣，一次忘记洗手，一次没有准备自己的餐具，后果就是这么辛苦！
8:34 AM
原来，不是只有辍学生才会说出以上这句话。
虽然已经是个妈妈，虽然已经学士毕业。
但强烈的求知欲仍然日以夜继地刺激我的思绪~
每早醒来，常常会因为自己无法如期完成心愿而叹气。
但儿子每早醒来给我一抹甜甜微笑，和睡前的一个亲吻。我已觉得我是最幸福的女人。
天平座啊~ 就是这么矛盾。
1:33 AM
Being a mom is a tough job, especially if you've got toddlers in the house and only one pair of hands.
With these gyro bowls, though, snack time will be stress free, at least.
The gyro bowl is a bowl with a special mechanism that doesn’t allow stuff inside to spill no matter what your kid does.
Fill it up with whatever you want - candies, cereal, brownies, etc - and bring it along on the long drive or the walk in the park.
Your kid can run with it and swing it around and still nothing will spill out.
You can even use the gyro bowl for tiny objects other than food.
Got a DIY project lined up? Fill it up with nails you wouldn't want rolling off everywhere!
Bring it to the office for paperclips and pins. You'll never spill or lose anything again!
Buy 1: RM15
Buy 2 free 1: RM30
Interested pls PM: https://www.facebook.com/messages/HouseInTrendz
or Email to houseintrendz@gmail.com
♥♥♥
10:43 AM
What do you think about The Love of Phantom towards Christine?
I called this Angel of Guardian <3 p="p">
11:30 PM
无奈，上一次我要生产的时候，爸爸看见越南的舅舅有空就毅然坚持去越南旅行，丢下我和老公自己面对刚分娩的第一星期，带走要指导我带孩子和坐月的妈妈，结果不同人不同医生不同说法搞到我几乎崩溃，几乎产后忧郁；
最难的是，排行最小也必须聆听所有人的意见。
朋友常戏称我家一人一抹关心的口水都能把我淹死。
下星期我需要连上4小时的课，也忘了曾答应替我在那段时间陪孩子的老爸，匆匆忙忙又再次飞了去越南找舅舅。我这个女儿，除了无奈也只能硬着头皮成全他们现在两老多么令人羡慕的“四处飞”半退休生活。
毕竟。。。有父母的陪伴已经是难得的恩赐，尤其嫁了出去的女儿=泼出去的水。
我不能take it as granted。
前天为了在蒲种公主城那里上part one电子商务课(还有part two)，仅仅3个小时的课，却让我和老公用了2天1夜的时间待在城市，而最辛苦的莫过于老公要一人带着小瓜3小时（尤其大热天无法使用推车）。
结果因为一路回家的路上发生不少小插曲，令我很难过很自责，花了不少钱和时间，昨天半夜才到家。
顿时我很纳闷，很无奈。
上天似乎故意为难我这个母亲，不让我轻易上课。
带着好动的孩子塞在车龙里的疲劳不说，未来下半段的课以及别的seminar也不知该如何腾出时间。尤其对于一个得不到孩子/亲人协助配合以及父母精神上支持的nursing mother：孤立无援是此时此刻我心情的最佳写照。
如果我能自己只身搭巴士去上课，一切烦恼都能解决。
但这看似简单，无奈，被孩子黏得死死的我。。。如今依然是孤立无援。
今天，车子因为未能六点前修理好而导致无法上瑜珈课，令我更加暴躁。
没人能明白或体会我在瑜珈课里能够找到自己的那份发自内心的喜悦和开心，更何况这里一星期只有两次；而我能够配合到的时间就只有这一课。
what's your birthday wishes?
很简单，我不要玫瑰，不要礼物，不要烛光晚餐。蛋糕也不要！
我只要区区是10个小时的自由，孩子不会干扰；令我能顺顺利利去听seminar和听课。
请不要让这一切令我觉得是奢望。
1:47 AM
Katy Perry is just so so marvellous, gorgeous Katy Perry !!
~ Te Amo ~
11:03 PM
网络卖家其实不好当，赚的钱不多，凡事都必须亲力亲为，才有可能在创业的前几年内，维持利润足够养活自己。
兼职的卖家，经常在工作的午休时间，提着大包小包的包裹，赶到 POS Office ，一边啃面包，一边排队等着寄货。货到了的时候, 不但要眼快手明一件一件验货, 还要连夜包好所有包裹才能上床休息。牺牲健康，代价没法子计算。
隐私的时间 , 更是少的可怜。尤其兼职网卖的卖家,有的是全职家庭主妇。她们总是手头上一堆家务+孩子的事做不完; 一旦发现顾客有留言，却跑不开回应, 就会整天坐立不安，总想着尽快回复，怕怠慢了顾客，生意跑掉；
三更半夜收到 SMS ，不管多累，都得爬起床来马上回复，否则心里七上八下，深怕失去了一笔生意，哪还能安心睡觉？
网络卖家的生活，几乎每天都是如此，假日也不例外。换来的是什么？一个商品能赚多少利润，单靠手指都能轻易算出来。
因为对网络事业有热情、对顾客有一份承诺，才让卖家咬紧牙关，逐渐磨练出刻苦耐劳的美德。
对一个未曾经营过网络事业的顾客而言，
卖家所付出的努力，说不清，道不明，看不见。
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11:35 PM
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| 他们，根本没有任何 再肮脏的食物明知道吃进去会肚子痛，还是必须要吃了再说。 |
看到了这里，我决定不买PINK NOTE了。也决定不去法国旅行了；把钱收起来作投资，并且限定自己：
在还没有本事每个月捐钱给穷苦人家之前，我不能换新电话，不能换名牌包，更不能去昂贵国家旅行。
They might not have a choice; but we do.
My poor children, for now I can't help you, but I will still chant for you to have a helping hand out there.
And I will work hard for penny, to make sure future I can help more poor people out like you...
With Love,
Carrole.
5:12 PM
这件事情,自从aec播出,我听闻以后哭了一次,我讨厌死引进稀土计划的恶魔,心底诅咒了他们千百回。
得悉他离世时,我没哭,因为我认为他解脱了,黎群阿姨也无须担心她先离世的话孩子怎么办。
几天后看到这张照片,面子书相册上尽显那伟大的母爱,遇上如此祸害依然逆来顺受,我无语了,十五分钟的哀伤和生气。 很矛盾的,思及我根本帮不了什么。
还是那句,因果报应。
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5:55 PM
Hahahhaha its Usana Again !!
Lets looking forward for the next batch, as I wanna have to best milk for my babyyyy ~~~ ;-)
p/s: not sure it gonna slim me down as I am addicted to their meal replacement (much expensive than Herbalife when mixed dem all up for my meal) !! But one thing for sure, when I m broke, I am gonna slim down xD
Kisses, xx.
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