People makes mistakes inevitably.
Especially when we were young, we didn't know the immensity of heaven and earth; which is why we took things for granted and behaved arrogantly.
Somehow one day, as time goes by, slowly you will realize and find out what you thought that were supposed to be right; was actually something wrong.
And....that is not too late to admit. Neither is the other side. Because when mistakes occur, there goes responsibility on both sides.
During my university age, I was a naive and innocent girl. I treat my friends as soulmates. I got betrayal eventually, which was why I would misbehave. On the other hand, I used to be that kind of realistic calculative lady especially when it comes to my first job. At that moment I only have a mission: what's more important than earning money ?!
Thus, when I got to know that the one who recommended the job for my friend and me - my supervisor - entitled the commission and profit sharing through headhunting and commanding us. I felt that we were not being treated fairly. So when the supervisor offered my friend and I a place to stay without any charges, I thought he should - as we were headhunted by him and he earns more - so I accepted without any gratefulness, take it as an employee welfare or something, even repairing the spoiled window of the house that we were staying, I thought the repairing charges should be bear by him. Therefore, the consequence was - I offended him and his partner. I was not fired though, that's how I leave a bad impression in someone's life.
This is just part of my sharing.
And my point is,
no matter how great a person can be, I am sure that he/she must have offended someone before.
Why? because a human tends to be raised up in different cultures and backgrounds. Thus, when they have their own mindsets, then they might misbehave, misbelieve, mislearn, misunderstand, misinterpret or even misplace the priorities of human elements and ding dongs etc.
" Our very strength invites challenge. Challenge incites conflict. And conflict breeds catastrophe. " (Vision : Captain America Civil War, 2016)
There is never too late to confess your faults. Confess them, and you will be healed.
Folks, let's read A B C.
A
B
C
again
A
B
C
and there are :
Attitude. Behavior. Certificate.
You see! The A comes first.
Dearies, instead of having good grades, life gets easier when you have good attitudes all the time.
I don't have to talk much.
Goodnight.