Trouble passes. What has caused you to burst into tears will soon to be forgotten. You may remember that you cried but not why you did so. As we grow up and go through life, we are often surprised at how we lie awake at night brooding over something that has upset us during the day, or how we nurse resentment against someone by letting the same thoughts run through our minds concerning how to have our own back. We may fall into a rage at the spur of the moment over something, and later wonder what it was we were so angry about, and be surprised to realise what a waste of time and energy it had all been. We have deliberately gone on being unhappy when we could have stopped being so and started thinking about something else more wholesome.
Whatever troubles are, and however aggrieved we may feel, time will heal our wounds. But surely there must be something we can do to prevent ourselves form being hurt in the first place. Why should we allow others or troubles to drain away our energy and make us unhappy? The answer is they do not. It is we are the one who make ourselves unhappy.
Whenever we fail to find a solution to a problem, we are inclined to find a scapegoat, to vent out frustration. We are not prepared to admit our own shortcomings. It is easier to put the blame on others. In fact, some even take pleasure in doing so. This is a completely wrong attitude to adopt. We must not show resentment towards the others. We should do our utmost, pains-takingly and calmly, to resolve our own problems. We must be prepared to face up to any difficulties that we encounter.